Hope it makes a good reading!Interesting to find out the paradigm shift in ideas and behavior among my set of friends upon entering the enigmatic phase of matrimony!
As they discover and rediscover themselves,their revelations are surely going to set a lot of examples worth emulating!
Looking forward to lot more thought provoking real-life anecdotes:)!
Thank U dear buddies and Wish You goodluck!
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Mr Iyer
> Sent: Tuesday, February 08, 2005 11:11 AM
> To: My Group
>
> Subject: 10 Things U Gotta Acclimatize After
> Wedding
>
>
> 1. You would have to fill the anniversary date column
> henceforth.
> 2. You would have to remember your wife's nakshatram/rasi during
> Archanai.
> 3. You would have to check/tick MARRIED instead of SINGLE in
> forms.
> 4. You would have to remember her favorite soup while 1/2
> orders.
> 5. You would have to have her on your right while namaskarams
> and food.
> 6. You would have to get used to addressing like "MY WIFE needs
> a bla bla bla..."
> 7. You would have to get used to wait while she bathes/gets
> ready/shops n what not.
> 8. You would have to check packages/rates for a couple wherever
> applicable.
> 9. You would have to hold her hands when you are at a
> road/market.
> 10. You would have to find ways to get least embarassed at shops
> like Naidu Hall.
Reply from Mrs.Iyengar..
> 1. You should also remember what dish she likes/dislikes
> 2. Convince your team mates to take ur spouse along for a informal
> project party . Juz it in case u need to make arrangements for transport
> (atleast in my case)
> 3. You should help her in the kitchen and house hold work
> 4. Never forget her dear friend's names and what they do.
> 5. Remember to have ur wife updated about ur friends. Don;t let her feel
> left out when u are going out with ur friends
> 5. Ofcourse remember her closest kins details like their natshathiram,
> gothram.important dates
> U expect ur wife to remember that . right!!??
>
Rejoinder from me :
In both the emails,Noticed the words..
"You would have to"
"You should"
"You should never"...
I take exception to that.
My view is..Both the male/female have the choice to follow or
disregard many of these.It really depends on the compatibility factor.
But then,a disregard for one or 2 of these doesn't really mean a loss
in rapport.It will defly be compensated by some other unlisted
virtue,at the least expected moment!
Whatsayall?
-Raapi
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